At the start of September, I was in London during a heatwave. Songs might romanticise this experience, but the reality is that it’s quite uncomfortable. Especially if you travel on the London Underground.
Sardine can life!
For the first twelve years of my professional life, I commuted on the London Underground. The cramped conditions, especially during summer, often left me feeling like I was trapped in a sardine can. At the time, I couldn’t imagine an alternative. It never occurred to me that people around the world had different work experiences – some commuted by ferry, cycled through picturesque lanes, or enjoyed the comforts of a home office.
Looking back, I realise I had a somewhat narrow-minded view of work. I despised my job in professional services marketing, and I assumed that most people felt the same way about their careers. My belief was that everyone lived for the weekend and dreaded monday morning. Although I suspected there were individuals who enjoyed their work, I considered myself unworthy of joining their ranks.
It took many years, but eventually, I discovered another way.
The other way
Today, my life is dramatically different. I’ve transitioned to part-time work and run my own business from the comfort of my home in Thirroul, a seaside town in New South Wales, Australia. My commute to the office takes a mere 15 minutes, during which I indulge in inspiring podcasts. I leave work with daylight still shining, full of energy to spend quality time with my family or dedicate myself to my business. On the days I work from home, I start after a leisurely walk to school with my kids and a relaxing coffee. I often take my dog for a stroll along the dog beach at lunchtime.
My life isn’t perfect, and I haven’t amassed a seven-figure income. I haven’t retired my husband, and like many parents, I find myself raising my voice at my kids more than I’d like. However, my recent experience in London’s scorching heatwave has reminded me to be grateful for the life I’ve built.
Are you also a commuter with a miserable expression on your face? Perhaps you’re not enduring a heatwave, but you might be struggling with the belief that work is meant to be a constant struggle.
I used to blame myself for my unhappiness, thinking, “It’s okay, everyone feels this way.” However, that’s not the case for everyone. It is possible to enjoy your job, your working conditions, and even your commute, but it often requires intention and effort.