Gosh I worried so much about what other people thought in the early days of my career change.
I was convinced that my friends would think I was crazy, or even selfish, to give up my well-paid corporate career.
I remember being in floods of tears when I told a mere acquaintance my idea, and she poo-pooed it.
And I recall dancing around the issue with older relatives, who I imagined would question my need to be “happy in my job” as if that was a foreign concept.
The reality is that most people did not throw confetti for my bold move. And some were downright rude and hurtful about my choices.
If you’ve decided to take the plunge but you’re worried about how your move will be perceived, then here’s some advice to help you stay the course and ignore the naysayers.
Own your decision, like a boss
First things first, wear your decision to switch careers like a snazzy accessory. Confidence is contagious, and it’s hard for others to doubt you when you’re rocking your choice with style.
Spill the Beans on Your ‘Why’:
When Aunt Sue raises an eyebrow at your career pivot during Christmas dinner, take a deep breath, and spill the beans on your ‘why.’ Share your dreams, motivations, and the sheer passion propelling you into this new adventure. People are more likely to cheer you on when they know the story behind your career caper.
Get some wisdom from the wise
Seek out other people who have changed career successfully. They can share with you how they overcame the views of sceptics and inspire you with their stories of how they can say “I told you so” now.
Develop a rhino hide
Let’s face it; not everyone will be on the cheerleading squad. Some might even throw a little shade your way. Develop a thick skin, like a rhino hide, and let those negative vibes bounce right off you. Remember, it’s your journey, not theirs. Deep down they are probably wishing they were as brave as you. Remember that.
Build your tribe of career rebels
Surround yourself with fellow career rebels who get your struggle and share your dreams. Connect with them at events, join online hangouts, and build a tribe of supporters who’ll be your backup dancers when the sceptics start their routine.
Turn criticism into career fuel
Not all feedback will be a round of applause, and that’s okay. Take a moment to sift through the comments; if there’s some constructive criticism in there, use it as fuel to become an even more fabulous version of yourself. But otherwise let it spur you on so you can watch them eat their words later.
In the grand scheme of things, opinions are like emojis – everyone’s got one. So, put on your shades, keep your focus on the prize, and dance to the beat of your own career-change soundtrack. After all, this is your show, and you’re the star! 🚀✨
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Denny x